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i dont use this tumblr anymore.

elvishness:

aaand lauren’s commission 2, which is brienne of tarth! i really liked doing this one because i’ve wanted to draw brienne for a long time already eee

elvishness:

aaand lauren’s commission 2, which is brienne of tarth! i really liked doing this one because i’ve wanted to draw brienne for a long time already eee

Tagged with: #brienne of tarth  #got  

in other news it’s my mom’s 57th birthday today

i got her a flower bouquet and card and then my fam went out to breakfast and i’m probably gonna go to the mall w/ her later

i’m v thankful bc even if i have my beef with her sometimes she’s still been a good mother to me and i love her a lot

ur on zoloft right?? i know that rly fucked up my sleep schedule when i was on it i literally could not sleep for longer than 3 hours w/o waking up or s/t

yeeeeeeeep i mean i already had trouble sleeping w/o any (over the counter, like tylenol PM) sleeping aides even before i started taking zoloft, so zoloft has just made it like 500x worse. plus, i’m also not taking any sleeping aides anymore since i don’t know how they’d react with zoloft, esp. since i’d probably be taking them every night? i should prob talk to my pharmacy, but phone calls…..

I’d like you to remember the last time you found it difficult to give an explicit “no” to somebody in a non-sexual context. Maybe they asked you to do them a favour, or to join them for a drink. Did you speak up and say, outright, “No?” Did you apologise for your “no?” Did you qualify it and say, “Oh, I’m sorry, I can’t make it today?” If you gave an outright “no,” what privileged positions do you occupy in society, and how does your answer differ from the answers of people occupying more marginalised positions?

This form of refusal was analysed in 1999 by Kitzinger and Frith (K&F) in Just Say No? The Use of Conversation Analysis in Developing a Feminist Perspective on Sexual Refusal. Despite the seeming ambiguity in question/refusal acts like, “We were wondering if you wanted to come over Saturday for dinner,” “Well, uhh, it’d be great but we promised Carol already,” they are widely understood by the participants as straightforward refusals.

K&F conclude by saying that, “For men to claim [in a sexual context] that they do not ‘understand’ such refusals to be refusals (because, for example, they do not include the word ‘no’) is to lay claim to an astounding and implausible ignorance of normative conversational patterns.”

Under Duress: Agency, Power, and Consent

Like I’ve said before. There’s no excuse.

(via home-of-amazons)

Tagged with: #rape culture  #isms  #consent issues cw  

phototoartguy:

Puppy’s First Visit To The Beach Will Make All Other Dog Photos Out There Irrelevant

This little fella’s name is Champ. He’s a 9-week-old golden retriever that went to the beach for the first time in Hagar Township on Lake Michigan.

Photograher Patrick Holthof

silkchemise:

ikki got smart and fled this poorly developed storyline

Tagged with: #lok  #lmao  #anti lok for ts